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Jungle in the City

Vancouver is a very green city. The amount of greenery is incredible considering the buildings are reaching higher and higher, almost touching the clouds. In fact, there are days when the top ten to twenty floors on some high rises are lost in the fog. That must be unsettling, looking out to a curtain of clouds. The shrubs, trees and evergreens are planted throughout the city, cleaning the air with their own breathing, giving us cleaner oxygen.  The amount of plants makes one want to have the same natural surroundings inside or at least on the balcony, if luck is on you side with that option. Currently, my little jungle is enjoying the warmth inside during the chill of the winter. Last year I lost faith in a couple of California Lilacs I purchased, frozen over a week and half of deadly -20Ā°C weather. I had to heat the hummingbird feeder with a telephoto lens warmer for a camera. I didn't want to lose my new lilacs so I brought them inside, along with my Japanese dwarf maple, my cal...
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And Just Like That ...

  Like a cozy sweater, I wrapped myself in the past, took a deep breath and pushed play. I knew what was coming, and I was already familiar with the first episode of its release, but knowing I had full access to every episode made the experience more personal. There was no familiar theme song as it wasn't a reboot, but it had the feeling of something you know like the back of your hand, like that smell that brings you back to your grandmother's home or the taste that transports you to another time in your life. It was almost like the feeling returning to a numb limb, with which I have had recent experience, two carpal tunnel surgeries later. My brain, or rather my soul, was awakened from the fog bathed in for what seemed like forever.  I decided to use my time back in New York with ladies from my past. Although fictional, they definitely were part of my life, playing out storylines side by side with my life on the tube weekly. Having them back, 20 years later, aged and lived i...

Adults and Toys - Do Adults Ever Really Grow Up?

Every morning I drag myself out of my warm bed and prepare for another work day, as everyone else does in numerous routines and rituals. I pop in my earbuds and tune out the nearby noise, listen to the news while doing my daily puzzles on my mobile phone on the bus, and mentally prepare my "To Do" list. Looking around the crowded bus I always look at the similarities students wear to university, checking the popular brands and styles. At one point during my employment at the university, I created a "style" Bingo game, matching brands and styles students wear, and I always tried to figure out how these younger "starving" young adults could afford Nike Air Force One sneakers, Canada Goose parkas, Blundstone boots and the like. I do this today, sneaking a quick snap of the style and Google Lens the style (no faces of course), sometimes outwardly scrunching my face at the price of the item on my screen. No wonder these kids are starving, they can't afford ...

Snow is Beautiful and Triggering

Vancouver has never been known as a winter wonderland, well, at least the actual city center, but the weather pattern has consistently turned frigid. Usually, Vancouverites are used to the dreary gray decor, cloudy and rainy 24 - 7, making the shorter days even worse, as if the Sun is wearing shades. The streets are usually lined with puddles and the locals walk around the city with black umbrellas adding to the dark wet days of winter. I have noticed some people donning vibrant coloured umbrellas, standing out from the wave of black, but this is probably more for safety from cars, scooters, e-bikes, buses and other vehicles trying to peer through the rain. I was almost hit by a car and now I have a bright yellow umbrella, hoping I don't experience that shock ever again. This past week, the weather went from unusually warm and balmy in January to an about-face in February with negative temperatures and snow falling in the city and all over the Lower Mainland. The excitement of hear...

Cheers to my Community!

After work, as I'm heading down to my local, are the friends there really what they say they are? You only know them from the bar...  Community. We all search for it. Acceptance, understanding, similarities, affirmations, friendship. When you sit down next to another person and the conversation is like one with the mirror - similar feelings, ideas, paths - you realize you aren't the only person in this huge world that finds the hurdles endless. Are we all searching for something unattainable? Are we all expecting too much from humanity? This community I see regularly is, of course, sauced up with an alcoholic glaze, so this always makes me put my guard up. I have consistently watched what some drinks can do to people, me included, and how 'the truth' comes out, as the alcohol slips armour from everyone.  I have met many people, including my partner, and have made numerous friends at our watering hole. It's amazing how, as you get older, your eyes weaken but what the...

Christmas Dinner 2023

Christmas dinner is not a challenge for me, unlike most people all over the world. Depending on your main dish selection and the corresponding side dishes, the difficulty level can differ for anyone, but I always suggest keeping it on the simple side so you can spend more time enjoying yourself than living in your kitchen. It was just my partner and me this year, keeping it a bit low-key and quiet. He just started a new job and didn't want to go too crazy, doing a little extra studying during the festive days off. His decision was leg of lamb, which I was happy with as turkey for two is either too much trouble or not special enough if using turkey thighs for your main dish. Using my kitchen and cooking tools (and skills) was a great decision, making our neighbourhood festivities available while also having time to cook. After visiting the local pub and enjoying a few rye and cokes (beer for him) we tried to gather an appetite, filling up on Christmas brunch with my family earlier i...

Silence Is Golden - Enjoy It

Forget your headphones, earbuds, AirPods! That's right, I said it and it is my advice today. I am known to be listening to talk radio all day all the time if I'm not otherwise working or out socializing and I love to always be informed, but lately, I have tuned out the background noise - at least for a part of my day. I recently found that having continuous focussed noise in your ears is like looking directly in the sun for long periods, leaving you partially blind. With the music, radio, and podcasts consistently battering your eardrums leaves you mentally blind (I don't mean deaf) in a way. I mean desensitized to natural noise outside the speakers enveloping your ears. I also think it can drain you mentally especially if you are listening to news or talk radio, making you analyze what you are hearing and making subconscious decisions on every topic. I just decided to have parts of my day silent to ease to noise in my head.  I went for a walk last week and forgot my earbud...